There was a time I'd get a number from a girl and feel alive. If especially pretty, I'd write it separately fearing phone loss or theft. I didn't want losing an opportunity. I was careful entering her number correctly, terrified of mistakes preventing contact. I valued the pussy so much before sex that fear consumed me over losing her. I probably showed this neediness during pickup, demonstrating I thought she was a valuable snowflake. Russian women could sense this neediness instantly

Flash forward to now. If I lose her number or don't enter it correctly, who cares? I'll pick another girl the next night. Unlimited supply exists everywhere—millions waiting for my attempt. One girl's failure isn't worth mental stress. No pussy is golden. They're commodities, millions present in every city worldwide. She should worry I don't have her number correctly. She should insist I call her phone so she has mine, not the reverse. That's the proper dynamic.

Until a girl amazes you beyond looking pretty, she has low worth. Until she delivers great sex or nice affection like cooking or gifts, she shouldn't occupy more than fleeting thoughts. Pretty faces are everywhere and worthless without substance backing them. Abundance destroys neediness because you understand replacement velocity. Another girl appears before you finish processing the last one. This mindset shift changes everything about your interactions and outcomes completely.

Treat pussy like the commodity it is. Approach every interaction assuming unlimited options elsewhere. This confidence transmits immediately to girls, making them chase harder. Scarcity created neediness. Abundance creates desirability. Russian dating players master this mindset better than Western men trapped in monogamy mindsets. Stop valuing individual girls. Value your own time and energy instead.